女生版32封，说谎是没有理由的。

She is right. Here I was trying to justify why men
lie. And I get an email from one of my subscriber
which was so simple and yet it made me think twice
about this whole lying thing. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR LYING. I agree. There is none. None whatsoever. Whatever the reason is. Even if men think that
lying might prevent you from getting hurt. Heck even women lie sometimes, and even
they have their reasons. But the fact is, the world is as it is. Men are like this. Men are conditioned to be like
this. There is no point in trying to PUt blame on something. We can say that it's their fault that are scared
of something like emotions. We can say it's
the fault of women all around the world who have
made men scared of their emotions. We can say it's
the fault of their mothers who make them scared
of emotions at a very young age. Whoever's fault it is, doesn't matter. As long as you understand the reason behind their
lie and try to fix the problem, instead of putting
blame, things should start to get better. Getting mad at him when he lies or when he doesn't want
to share his feelings will definitely not solve
the problem. Instead, if you show him that you are trying to
understand him. If you show him that you understand
why he lies. That you understand why sometimes he
likes to keep his feelings secretive. He will slowly
become more comfortable with himself and with you. Trying to rush things will only make things worse. Listen, lying about big things (infidelity, cheating etc.)
is definitely something that shouldn't be condoned. But don't give him a hard time about small things.
Just understand that it's in his nature. It is
a result of a lifetime of conditioning. Give him some time and space to grow himself.
If you force him to grow, he will only feel
pressured and again think that lying and hiding
his feelings is a better option. The truth is men lie. There is no excuse for lying
but that's how it is. Be that women that he never feels the need to
lie to. And you will be amazed how much your
life and relationships improve. BE THAT WOMEN -Kevin "No Excuses" Thompson

她是对的。在这里，我试图解释为何男人

谎言。我从我的用户之一，收到一封电子邮件

它是如此简单，但它让我三思

这整个事情撒谎。没有任何借口说谎。我同意。答案是没有。无任何责任。不管是什么原因。即使男人认为

说谎可能会使您受到伤害。哎呀，即使女性说谎有时，甚至

他们有他们的理由。但事实是，这个世界，因为它是。男人都是这样的。男人习惯于像

这个。有在试图把责任推给一些没有意义的。我们可以说，这是他们的错，是害怕

对类似的情绪。我们可以说这是

女人的世界谁拥有各地的故障

做男人害怕自己的情绪。我们可以说这是

他们的母亲的过错谁令他们心惊

的情绪在很年轻的时候。谁的错是，无所谓。只要你了解背后的原因，他们的

撒谎，并试图解决问题，而不是把

怪，事情应该开始变得更好。惹毛了他，当他的谎言，或当他不想要

分享他的感受，绝对不会解决

问题。相反，如果你告诉他，你正试图

了解他。如果你告诉他，你明白

为什么他的谎言。你明白为什么他有时

喜欢把自己的感情遮遮掩掩。他会慢慢

变得更加舒适与自己和你在一起。试图抢东西只会让事情变得更糟。听着，卧谈大事情（不忠，欺骗等）

绝对的东西，不应该被纵容。但不要给他约小东西很难。

才明白，这是他的性格。这是

空调一生的结果。给他一些时间和空间来发展自己。

如果你强迫他长大，他只会觉得

压力，再次认为说谎和隐瞒

他的感情是一个更好的选择。事实是，男人撒谎。没有任何借口，说谎

但是这是怎么回事。是女人，他从来没有觉得有必要

骗。而且你会惊奇地发现自己多

生活和关系改善。 BE女性

-Kevin“没有借口”汤普森