女生版33封，这是你自己的生活。

Today, I want to take a break from the relationship
stuff and talk about you. Every once in a while, I like to take a break from
my usual life and take a moment to contemplate on
everything about my life. Sometimes, in a relationship, you get so tied up
that you don't get the time to think about other
parts of your life. You don't get the time to be
grateful for other things. Especially after a breakup, when everything feels
like a sad joke, it's hard to really contemplate
on things. But nevertheless, you should take a moment to think
about your life. Not just what's going on in your life right now,
but the big picture. I strongly believe everyone should have goals in
life. Enjoying is an important part of life, but without
any PUrpose in life, you just feel a little lost
inside you. Having a purpose is important. But, don't fool
yourself into thinking that your relationship is
the main purpose of your life. It shouldn't be. Plain and simple. If it is, then
there is a good chance that you will just over-analyze
everything in your relationship and end up becoming
a doormat or driving yourself crazy.
And in the long run, you will just ruin the
thing that you think is most important to you. As I said before, relationships are important, but
they are still just a part of life. If you have a family, and children, then it is understandable
to make them your top priority. But even with them, you should have some other goals
in life other than just family. It could be your career, a hobby, volunteer work or
anything that you feel is important. And if you think the only thing important to you is
your boyfriend or ex boyfriend, then you really need
to start doing some new things. Life is full of amazing things, inspiring activities,
and wonderful opportunities. And if you haven't found
something that makes you feel you want to do it more,
you need to find it. It could be something as simple as playing video games,
or playing a musical instrument, or dancing, or painting
or even body building. But don't forget your relationships either. To feel
complete in life, you need to feel good about your
relationships. You should value them. You should cherish
them. And I am not talking about your romantic relationships. I am takling about all your relationships. Tak a moment to think about them. Your friends. Your family.
Your Parents. Your Colleagues. Take a moment to think about how you are performing on
your relationships. Have you been a good friend to your closed ones?
When was the last time time you spoke to your parents
or visited them?
Can your friends rely on you if they need help? I am strongly against keeping bad company in your life.
If their is someone toxic (bad friends, bad boyfriend etc.),
you should remove them from your life as soon as possible. But if there is someone you cherish in your life, you
should appreciate it. And you should let them know occasionally
how much you appreciate them. There is no harm in opening up once in a while and letting
your closed ones know how much you appreciate them. Anyways, there is no point to this email. Just contemplating
on life. And thought I will write to you. -Kevin "Contemplating" Thompson

今天，我想借此从关系的突破

的东西，谈谈你的。每过一段时间，我想借此从休息

我平时的生活，花一些时间来考虑在

一切关于我的生活。有时候，在一个关系，你变得这么绑起来

你不要去想其他的时间

部分你的生活。你没有得到的时候要

感谢其他的事情。尤其是分手后，当一切都感觉

就像一个悲伤的玩笑，就很难真正考虑

上的东西。但无论如何，你应该花点时间去思考

你的生活。不只是发生的事情在你的生活，现在，

但大画面。我坚信每个人都应该有目标

生活。享受是生活的重要组成部分，但没有

在生活中的任何目的，你只是觉得有点失落

你内心。有一个目的是很重要的。但是，不要愚弄

自己以为你们的关系是

你的生活的主要目的。它不应该是。简单明了。如果是，则

有一个很好的机会，你会仅仅过分析

一切都在你的关系，并最终成为

受气包或驾驶自己疯了。

而从长远来看，你只会毁了

你认为事情是对你最重要。正如我之前所说的，关系是重要的，但

他们仍然只是生活的一部分。如果你有一个家庭，小孩的话，那是可以理解的

使他们的首要任务。但即使是他们，你应该有一些其他的目标

在生活中不仅仅是家庭等。这可能是你的事业，一个爱好，志愿工作或

任何事情，你觉得是很重要的。如果您认为唯一重要的是你是

你的男友或前男友，那么你真的需要

开始做一些新的东西。生活中充满了令人惊奇的事情，启发性的活动，

和美妙的机会。如果你还没有找到

一些让你觉得你想这样做多了，

你需要找到它。这可能是一些简单的玩视频游戏，

或演奏乐器，或跳舞，或画

甚至是班子建设。但不要忘记你的关系不是。感觉

完整的人生，你需要相信你的

关系。你应该珍惜它们。你应该好好珍惜

它们。我不是在谈论你的浪漫关系。我takling你所有的关系。德一点时间来考虑他们。你的朋友们。你的家人。

你的父母。你的同事。花点时间想想你是如何进行的

你的人际关系。你一直是很好的朋友你收的？

如果是你说你的父母最后一次时间

或访问它们？

您的朋友可以依靠你，如果他们需要帮助？我是坚决反对保留差劲的公司在你的生活。

如果他们是谁家的有毒（坏朋友，坏男友等），

你应该从你的生活，尽快将其删除。但是，如果有一个人在你的生命珍惜，你

应该感谢它。你应该让他们知道，偶尔

你是多么感激他们。还有就是在一段时间开放一次，让无伤害

你收的人知道你是多么感激他们。不管怎么说，没有一点这封电子邮件。只是考虑

生活。 ，我想我会写信给你。

-Kevin“凝视”汤普森